How To Talk To Girls And Get Them To Like You

Do You Speak the Language of Subtle Communication?

What's the biggest mistake most men make when they attempt to flirt with their body language? They try to pull off cheesy moves they learned from the media! How do you think a real-life woman will respond if you "suggestively" raise your eyebrow while stalker-staring her down from over the rim of your sunglasses? Do you really believe the only facial expression you need to master to get the girl is "Blue Steel" from Zoolander?

In most flirting situations this form of overt communication just doesn't work.

How Do Women Really Perceive Overt Communication or Over Confidence?

Women feel overt flirting is "too much." They consider men who communicate in this manner to be clowns, impossible to take seriously and completely ineligible for any sort of relationship. Every cheesy, overt form of body language flirting you've ever seen in the media was written, directed, and performed by men creating a fun-house mirror image of seduction. Those "moves" aren't subtle because subtle doesn't play well in commercials, music videos and magazine advertisements. When you have 30 seconds to make an impression with your audience you have to play it big. And playing it big might go over well in a cologne ad but it just isn't going to work in the real world.

Real Women Speak the Language of Subtle Communication

Have you ever noticed how women have the almost creepy ability to know what someone is feeling by just looking at them for 3 quick seconds? Have you ever noticed how two women who just met for the first time can immediately start talking like they've known each other their whole lives? Have you ever had a woman get mad at you because you just didn't "understand" her? Would you like to learn how to talk to girls? How to impress girls? How to get a girl to like you?

Women are incredibly perceptive. Women pick up and send out thousands of subtle communication cues most men would never notice. Women speak the language of subtle communication. And if you want to learn how to succeed with women you need to learn how to speak it too, and fast.

What Speaking Subtle Communication Means to a Woman

At a very basic level women appreciate a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication because they're used to dealing with men seemingly screaming their intentions day in and day out. A man who can tone it all down offers a welcome oasis in a desert of over-the-top cavemen.
But there's a deeper reason high quality women seek a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication. That man can "tune in" to his woman and understand how she's feeling without her having to explicitly express it. That man can tune in to all people on a deeper level. That man will be more considerate to her friends, to her family, and to everyone else in her life. And all women want a man who can easily slide, and not force, his way into her life.

Stop Missing Your Ex

You are going through a devastating break up and all you want to do is stop missing your ex and move on. It sounds so easy and you've probably heard your friends also tell you, "stop thinking about your ex and move on". But truly, the only person who knows how near impossible this sounds is you.

When you have just broken up you feel as if your life just ended; You feel like you can't function without your ex; You know that your life will never be the same as it was before, since you are not with your ex anymore.

I know these feelings all too well. I've had so many "eventful" break ups that I even started a journal to write about it.

Missing your ex the days following the break up is quite normal. Irrespective of what you might think right now, there is life after the end of a relationship. It won't come naturally though. You have to make an effort and take action. Here are a few things that helped me, stop missing my ex.

Get closure
If you are the one that got dumped you will want closure. It's good when you know the reason for the break up. Otherwise, you are left wondering why! Having closure means that you accept that the relationship is over and you can take the first steps towards moving on. If you keep thinking that you have a chance to get back with your ex or have plans to get back together with your ex it's unlikely that you will be able to stop missing your ex.

Get rid of stuff that reminds you of your ex
Obviously, you need to skim through the things that your ex gave you or the things that you have shared with your ex. Having them around will constantly remind you of your ex and won't help at all.

Avoid contacting your ex
Cut all contact with your ex. Don't try to come up with silly excuses to meet your ex or call them! You should also avoid snooping around your ex's social media profiles. It can be overwhelming to find out whether your ex is dating someone else or what they are up to. I know this can be a really difficult thing for you to do, every time you meeting or speak to your ex it's going to be even more difficult for you to move on.