Do You Speak the Language of Subtle Communication?
What's the biggest mistake most men make when they attempt to flirt with their body language? They try to pull off cheesy moves they learned from the media! How do you think a real-life woman will respond if you "suggestively" raise your eyebrow while stalker-staring her down from over the rim of your sunglasses? Do you really believe the only facial expression you need to master to get the girl is "Blue Steel" from Zoolander?
In most flirting situations this form of overt communication just doesn't work.
How Do Women Really Perceive Overt Communication or Over Confidence?
Women feel overt flirting is "too much." They consider men who communicate in this manner to be clowns, impossible to take seriously and completely ineligible for any sort of relationship. Every cheesy, overt form of body language flirting you've ever seen in the media was written, directed, and performed by men creating a fun-house mirror image of seduction. Those "moves" aren't subtle because subtle doesn't play well in commercials, music videos and magazine advertisements. When you have 30 seconds to make an impression with your audience you have to play it big. And playing it big might go over well in a cologne ad but it just isn't going to work in the real world.
Real Women Speak the Language of Subtle Communication
Have you ever noticed how women have the almost creepy ability to know what someone is feeling by just looking at them for 3 quick seconds? Have you ever noticed how two women who just met for the first time can immediately start talking like they've known each other their whole lives? Have you ever had a woman get mad at you because you just didn't "understand" her? Would you like to learn how to talk to girls? How to impress girls? How to get a girl to like you?
Women are incredibly perceptive. Women pick up and send out thousands of subtle communication cues most men would never notice. Women speak the language of subtle communication. And if you want to learn how to succeed with women you need to learn how to speak it too, and fast.
What Speaking Subtle Communication Means to a Woman
At a very basic level women appreciate a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication because they're used to dealing with men seemingly screaming their intentions day in and day out. A man who can tone it all down offers a welcome oasis in a desert of over-the-top cavemen.
But there's a deeper reason high quality women seek a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication. That man can "tune in" to his woman and understand how she's feeling without her having to explicitly express it. That man can tune in to all people on a deeper level. That man will be more considerate to her friends, to her family, and to everyone else in her life. And all women want a man who can easily slide, and not force, his way into her life.
What's the biggest mistake most men make when they attempt to flirt with their body language? They try to pull off cheesy moves they learned from the media! How do you think a real-life woman will respond if you "suggestively" raise your eyebrow while stalker-staring her down from over the rim of your sunglasses? Do you really believe the only facial expression you need to master to get the girl is "Blue Steel" from Zoolander?
In most flirting situations this form of overt communication just doesn't work.
How Do Women Really Perceive Overt Communication or Over Confidence?
Women feel overt flirting is "too much." They consider men who communicate in this manner to be clowns, impossible to take seriously and completely ineligible for any sort of relationship. Every cheesy, overt form of body language flirting you've ever seen in the media was written, directed, and performed by men creating a fun-house mirror image of seduction. Those "moves" aren't subtle because subtle doesn't play well in commercials, music videos and magazine advertisements. When you have 30 seconds to make an impression with your audience you have to play it big. And playing it big might go over well in a cologne ad but it just isn't going to work in the real world.
Real Women Speak the Language of Subtle Communication
Have you ever noticed how women have the almost creepy ability to know what someone is feeling by just looking at them for 3 quick seconds? Have you ever noticed how two women who just met for the first time can immediately start talking like they've known each other their whole lives? Have you ever had a woman get mad at you because you just didn't "understand" her? Would you like to learn how to talk to girls? How to impress girls? How to get a girl to like you?
Women are incredibly perceptive. Women pick up and send out thousands of subtle communication cues most men would never notice. Women speak the language of subtle communication. And if you want to learn how to succeed with women you need to learn how to speak it too, and fast.
What Speaking Subtle Communication Means to a Woman
At a very basic level women appreciate a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication because they're used to dealing with men seemingly screaming their intentions day in and day out. A man who can tone it all down offers a welcome oasis in a desert of over-the-top cavemen.
But there's a deeper reason high quality women seek a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication. That man can "tune in" to his woman and understand how she's feeling without her having to explicitly express it. That man can tune in to all people on a deeper level. That man will be more considerate to her friends, to her family, and to everyone else in her life. And all women want a man who can easily slide, and not force, his way into her life.
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