Basic SEO Tips To Improve Your Website

Search engine optimization, or SEO, is a way to make a website rank highly on search engine results pages. Every business should incorporate proper techniques into its development plan. These methods increase website visibility with the target audience, encouraging site traffic and sales. There are several basic SEO tips to increase the search engine ranking of a site.

A regular inspection of the referrer log is recommended to track the source of traffic and identify search terms being used. These terms should be converted to keywords used in URLs, titles, content, and image names. However, they should not be overused or the site will be labeled as spam. The two most important places to use keywords are the page header and title tag.

Integrating internal links on the site is one of the most basic search engine optimization strategies and a simple way to increase individual page traffic. When new content is created, it should be linked to archived information. Using relevant anchor text increases the chance that the page will appear in search engine results for like-worded queries. Links should be relevant and not overused or site visitors may become frustrated and leave the page.

Clear keywords should be used in URLs to make these friendlier for search engines. Avoid using a dynamic URL or including an internal classification system in the URL. Site maps may seem like ancient history but they are important to search engine spiders. A site map should list and link to all the major pages on the site. It should not take more than a few clicks to reach any page on the site.

When images are used, the words associated with them should be descriptive. By using an ALT tag, a keyword-laden image description can be included. Search engine programming considers visible text included around images quite valuable. Images should have captions and the text located close to images should be descriptive. Adobe Flash may seem snazzy but since it cannot link to a particular page, it should be used sparingly.

Keeping content fresh is one of the most basic tips and should not be underestimated. Integrating a blog is one way to regularly update content. This blog is part of social media distribution, which is another important SEO technique. Site owners should use social networking to distribute links to the newest content on the site. Incorporating basic tips like these will increase the visibility of any site.

How To Talk To Girls And Get Them To Like You

Do You Speak the Language of Subtle Communication?

What's the biggest mistake most men make when they attempt to flirt with their body language? They try to pull off cheesy moves they learned from the media! How do you think a real-life woman will respond if you "suggestively" raise your eyebrow while stalker-staring her down from over the rim of your sunglasses? Do you really believe the only facial expression you need to master to get the girl is "Blue Steel" from Zoolander?

In most flirting situations this form of overt communication just doesn't work.

How Do Women Really Perceive Overt Communication or Over Confidence?

Women feel overt flirting is "too much." They consider men who communicate in this manner to be clowns, impossible to take seriously and completely ineligible for any sort of relationship. Every cheesy, overt form of body language flirting you've ever seen in the media was written, directed, and performed by men creating a fun-house mirror image of seduction. Those "moves" aren't subtle because subtle doesn't play well in commercials, music videos and magazine advertisements. When you have 30 seconds to make an impression with your audience you have to play it big. And playing it big might go over well in a cologne ad but it just isn't going to work in the real world.

Real Women Speak the Language of Subtle Communication

Have you ever noticed how women have the almost creepy ability to know what someone is feeling by just looking at them for 3 quick seconds? Have you ever noticed how two women who just met for the first time can immediately start talking like they've known each other their whole lives? Have you ever had a woman get mad at you because you just didn't "understand" her? Would you like to learn how to talk to girls? How to impress girls? How to get a girl to like you?

Women are incredibly perceptive. Women pick up and send out thousands of subtle communication cues most men would never notice. Women speak the language of subtle communication. And if you want to learn how to succeed with women you need to learn how to speak it too, and fast.

What Speaking Subtle Communication Means to a Woman

At a very basic level women appreciate a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication because they're used to dealing with men seemingly screaming their intentions day in and day out. A man who can tone it all down offers a welcome oasis in a desert of over-the-top cavemen.
But there's a deeper reason high quality women seek a man who understands and speaks the language of subtle communication. That man can "tune in" to his woman and understand how she's feeling without her having to explicitly express it. That man can tune in to all people on a deeper level. That man will be more considerate to her friends, to her family, and to everyone else in her life. And all women want a man who can easily slide, and not force, his way into her life.

Stop Missing Your Ex

You are going through a devastating break up and all you want to do is stop missing your ex and move on. It sounds so easy and you've probably heard your friends also tell you, "stop thinking about your ex and move on". But truly, the only person who knows how near impossible this sounds is you.

When you have just broken up you feel as if your life just ended; You feel like you can't function without your ex; You know that your life will never be the same as it was before, since you are not with your ex anymore.

I know these feelings all too well. I've had so many "eventful" break ups that I even started a journal to write about it.

Missing your ex the days following the break up is quite normal. Irrespective of what you might think right now, there is life after the end of a relationship. It won't come naturally though. You have to make an effort and take action. Here are a few things that helped me, stop missing my ex.

Get closure
If you are the one that got dumped you will want closure. It's good when you know the reason for the break up. Otherwise, you are left wondering why! Having closure means that you accept that the relationship is over and you can take the first steps towards moving on. If you keep thinking that you have a chance to get back with your ex or have plans to get back together with your ex it's unlikely that you will be able to stop missing your ex.

Get rid of stuff that reminds you of your ex
Obviously, you need to skim through the things that your ex gave you or the things that you have shared with your ex. Having them around will constantly remind you of your ex and won't help at all.

Avoid contacting your ex
Cut all contact with your ex. Don't try to come up with silly excuses to meet your ex or call them! You should also avoid snooping around your ex's social media profiles. It can be overwhelming to find out whether your ex is dating someone else or what they are up to. I know this can be a really difficult thing for you to do, every time you meeting or speak to your ex it's going to be even more difficult for you to move on.

Who Needs Dating?

In short, no one. No one needs dating.

I know this might be shocking, many of us spend years looking for and pining after that magical someone that will make us truly happy.

But really, why do you want that? I mean most of us don't want dating, but rather a loving relationship, marriage, or a fun experience or connection with someone special. This is why 'the why' is so vital. All the clarity for what we want and how to make it happen is born from why it matters so much to us. So why do you want a date? What will dating provide? What would be possible if you met that person? Only once you are clear about why you are dating, can you really get everything that you desire. And some of you might even find that what you are looking for can actually be achieved by methods other than dating (friendship, pets, team sports), and viola, you've got options!

Once your why is handled, you want to think about what you are looking for in a date/mate. Most people have a pretty clear idea about the things they don't want, and failed relationships can be really enlightening here. So why do we find ourselves dating the same type of person over and over, or having the same problems/fights pop up? It is not just about identifying what we don't want, it is about getting crystal clear about the qualities we are looking for. We attract what we focus on, and if you look for what you want to avoid, it will unfortunately keep showing up. It's like the adage don't think about the pink elephant.....I think you get the picture (and it's probably of a pink elephant). When we are clear about the amazing, juicy qualities we're looking for, you'd be surprised how often they show up. That perfect person might even be right under your nose.

So now what? You are clear about the kind of relationship, whether dating or long-term, you want in your life, and what that person is like. Now you want to look at yourself. I know, this isn't always everyone's favourite thing to do. I say experience the panic and resistance, breath, and let's do it anyway. Now that you know who you are looking for, ask yourself "Who do I have to be to attract that kind of person"? If he or she is fit, healthy, confident, gives back, and is living their dreams, what kind of mate would you be for them. And if you have some things to handle, let's get that handled. Most importantly, remember that you are already whole, complete and perfect just as you are. The secret is really being the person you wish to attract. My guess is, being that person won't have you needing anything or anyone in your life to make it, or you, complete.

So yes, having that incredible person to share experiences with, is what life is all about. And we don't need it! Not the way need implies filling some void, but rather as a fulfillment of our expression of living a great life and attracting someone delicious to share your life with. To create together and have 1 + 1 equal, not just 2, but 11.

Happy adventures in dating!

Tips For Shy Guys: How to Make the First Move

If your personality type tends to inhibit you from starting conversations with strangers, you might feel even more nervous when the stranger in question is an attractive woman. The good news is that you can reduce this anxiety. How? For starters, by switching your focus. Instead of zeroing in on yourself, focus on the woman you're about to talk to.

Picture this scenario: you saw a pretty woman in the crowd, someone you are attracted to. You really wanted to go up to her and talk to her, but what would you say after "hi!"? As you're deliberating this issue, from the corner of your eye you noticed a guy sauntering up to your girl, casually bantering with her, making her smile. It seems like she's enjoying his company!

Focus on her. If you've ever wanted to be like this imaginary man, knowing how to engage the woman you're interested in, start by keeping the focus on her. In other words, stop thinking so hard about how you want to come across to her, or how you should act around her, or what you should or should not say. Zoom in on what she might want instead. Put yourself in her shoes. Think about what would soothe any concern she might have about being approached by a male stranger. Think about what you can do to make her feel at ease. When you see a girl you'd like to pursue, be more concerned about her well-being-not yours. Learning to pay attention to her needs takes the focus off yourself. In turn, this will help you act more naturally. When you feel that you can be yourself, the real you will shine through-and this is what will ultimately show her who you truly are.

Patient persistence pays off. Say you follow through with what you have just read here-and get rejected. Before you decide to drop out of her life altogether, consider adopting a patiently persistent stance. Even though she might have rejected your earlier advances, you can still show her your interest in a respectful manner. Ask her if it's OK to be her friend. An affirmative answer will give you license to be a reliable and kind figure in her life. Give of your friendship to her, with no strings attached.

Over time, you will see the wisdom this process. First, being in her life as a friend allows you to discover if she is truly someone worth pursuing. If the answer is no, then it's obvious that you can start your search for a romantic partner elsewhere. If the answer is yes, remaining in her life-even as a friend-gives you a way to wage an indirect campaign to win her heart. (Assuming, of course, that you will continue to treat her kindly and patiently, all the time showing subtle cues that you are interested in more than just friendship). Some women need time to decide on a romantic partner. Being patient and persistent can help nudge her toward this conclusion. Even if she refuses you as a potential suitor, though, you will never go wrong with being persistently kind toward a friend.

This principle is not meant as a license for you to cross the line and become a pest. In showing her your interest, make sure you remember what you read before-the focus is on her, not yourself. You are free to be in her life only as long as she permits it. Do not overstay your welcome by acting obnoxious, rude or self-centered.